When a child's contact schedule is not followed: records and legal help in Greece

What the current schedule actually provides

Before assessing a breach, check the arrangement currently in force and any later order. Days, times, collection, return, holidays and telephone contact may have different conditions. An unclear schedule presents a different problem from non-compliance with a clear court order.

An isolated delay caused by a genuine need is not assessed in the same way as repeated unjustified cancellation. The history, notice given, explanations and effect on the child all matter. Problems may involve both obstructing contact and culpably failing to exercise it.

Keeping useful records

For each event, record what was scheduled, what happened, when you were informed and what alternative was proposed. Keep the full relevant correspondence so its context remains clear. Avoid presenting assumptions about another person's intentions as established facts.

For example, a note could record that collection was scheduled for Friday at 17:00, illness was reported at 16:30 and a particular alternative was offered. A lawyer can assess that event alongside the wider evidence. Recording an incident does not itself establish a legal breach.

• Current court order or written agreement
• Dates, times and practical consequences
• Notifications and proposals to make up contact
• Relevant school or medical documents lawfully held

Clarification, implementation or variation

Where communication is safe, a specific written proposal may resolve a practical ambiguity. If problems persist, assess whether judicial clarification, variation or implementation of the existing arrangement is needed. The child's age, health, schooling and travel are material considerations.

The consequences of non-compliance and any enforcement measures depend on the wording of the title and statutory requirements. A complaint does not automatically change custody. The assessment concerns parental responsibilities as a whole and the interests of the individual child.

Protecting the child and responding to danger

Do not pressure the child to take sides, collect evidence or carry accusations. If the child expresses difficulty or fear, careful enquiry and appropriate legal and, where indicated, professional support are needed. Maintenance is a separate obligation and should not be traded for contact.

If there are indications of violence or immediate danger, seek prompt help from the competent authorities and disclose the existing arrangements. Do not try to enforce the schedule through physical confrontation. Emergency protection and lawful review of contact require a coordinated response.